After talking and dealing with different cancer patient , I note that there is no such thing as right or wrong on how to deal with the small 'c' .
Each patient have their right to make decision on what type of treatment and what type of life they want .
We should respect their right, respect their decision .
As family member , friends, what we can do is to offer our best assistance to them and be a good listener.
Offer our views and opinions at the right time , but, never insist them to accept it.

Some patient do not know what to do or how to organise to deal with the situation .
Some patient very insist on what they think is right .
Some patient get too excited with any new information given and keep changing or switching their game plan.
Some patient refuse to discuss their situation and accept any sharing.
Some patient ...

It is a long list and it is never easy to offer assistance without properly study and understand what is the assistance need from each individual patient.

Well ! This is why we need properly trained counselor .

I pray that Lord will bless us with wisdom and guide us how to offer our assistance to anyone who need our sharing.

God bless !